Lost and Found

The world is full of surprises

This post is going to be a bit different from my normal writings. Have you ever lost something never realizing really how important it was to you? I did, and it was  many years ago. I find it difficult to believe so much time has flown by and somehow I still feel at times I’m in the same place.

New York City is my home, or at least it was many moons ago. As a young woman, I lived, and loved, and thrived in “The Big Apple.” I was and still am passionate about NYC. Due to a personal situation I left the town that I was addicted to. Like all young people I had my group of friends. We were all involved in the music industry in one form or another and we lived, oh how we lived. But I digress. My departure left everything and everyone that I knew and loved, I left out of emotional survival. Life goes on and so did I, as well as all my lost friends. More times than not I daydreamed where they were, what had  happened in their lives and were they OK? I wanted to go home, but I couldn’t(That would take up too many pages and is too personal).

I felt like I had been banished to live my life in Siberia. A couple of days ago I received an email from one of those old friends. Something very bad had happened in my life some years back, and out of that a sheer miracle. We were once again connected. I cried from joy, I cried that a friend I thought I had lost forever was there. I was thrilled to share in the news of his life and that of his families. I am so proud to call him “friend.” He told me things that I never realized about me when I was younger, and reminded me of the precious gift of friendship. My death sentence was given a reprieve, and life holds so much in the thought that the friends I thought were lost and gone forever are there. I always had loved them, but I never knew how important they were until they were lost. I have been blessed to have found them again, I’ll never let them go.

This is dedicated to Danny and his lovely wife and daughter, to Richie F., and Monty and all the young dudes. I love you!

Interview with Athena Brady

Today I would like to spotlight Athena Brady, a remarkable woman who I am pleased to call friend. If you, as a part of the human race feel compassion for your fellow-man, are struggling with “why” issues, and want to make a difference, visit Athena’s blog. I am sure you will be touched.

Interview with Athena Brady

Hope, Love, Compassion, books, and family. These are some of your tags on your blog. Of course there are more, but these are the ones that struck me the most. Is this your message to your readers?

It is that we are all connected and I am there for them.

 What is the single most important thing you wish to convey to your visitors?

A sense of being welcome and that there are people who care out there about others.

 I know your passion for books began at a young age. Tell me how reading changed or touched your life. Do you think it is important that every child get an early start with literature?

My life as a child was not always happy and books offered me a kind of escapism from the sometimes harsh reality of life. In books I could travel, go on adventures and slip into a different world. Reading gave me so much pleasure and opened up my world so much. I have written from a young age and always wanted to be a writer. I want to give others what books gave me. I wanted to inspire and uplift people and give them hope and I still do. I think one of the greatest gifts you can give a child is the ability to read. The younger children learn to read the better really. Children are like sponges with a huge capacity to learn we should fill them up with good things.

 If I may quote you, “To be an author is to have a great responsibility to your readers, and team mates; your fellow authors. We have the power to change the world, to influence, to inspire, to give the gift of hope.” In your opinion, what should an author never do?

An author should never judge their readers; we can play with judgment in our books. We should not patronize our readers or forget that they put us were we are in the first place.

 You believe in visualization. Please tell us about your spiritual armor.

I have so many visualizations this is a difficult one. Imagine you are living the life you want to live. Every day close your eyes and give gratitude for all you have, no matter what there is always something to be grateful for. I imagine a great white light coming from my heart and radiating to all living things in the universe. If I feel stressed or unsettled this actually clears it for me. Live in the present moment it is the only place you truly exist do not hold on to painful past experiences but let them go and send them light.

 I’d like to congratulate you on your great reviews for “Thoughts on Life.”  What would you like your readers to take away from this experience?

Thank you Aron, that’s kind of you and it, was so nice that my readers took the time to write the reviews. I wrote this small book as a quick read to inspire and make people think. After a reader asked me to put them into a book she could keep with her. I hoped it would give them a yardstick to measure life events with.

 I love what you are doing on Saturdays, generously sharing blogs that motivate and touch. As a writer, I know how time-consuming playing in cyberspace can be. Would you like to share how you’ve come to find such inspiring bloggers? Do you think this can catch on? I saw where you are encouraging others to try the same approach; I think it is wonderful. Do you want to explain (better than I) what this concept is and how others can participate?

 I am glad you are enjoying the weekly “Giving Something Back” posts I find them all over the place really, some on “Freshly Pressed” at WordPress others by typing a word into a search engine. Sometimes someone recommends a blog to me and I check it out. I am amazed at all the talent out there. I do think that if a few people were to do this, it would spiral. It is just what it says really giving something back to our fellow writers, musicians, photographers etc. It is like “playing it forward” why; because it is nice to support and encourage each other. People could make their blogs monthly, if they don’t have much time, whatever fits in with them really. I hope people do start to do this as it will make a difference to those people featured. It is a way we can honor our fellow artists for all their hard work.

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Athena’s current works:

“Thoughts on Life” was prompted by a reader who asked me to put my blog posts into a book; that she could access whenever she wanted. It is what it says, my thoughts on life, in general. It is primarily a book of hope that concentrates on healing. The book is selling very well but people can download posts here for free if they don’t mind trawling through the website. I don’t want money to be a barrier to these posts.  However, if you can afford it please buy the book as I have to eat now and again. You can find this book here. http://amzn.to/VFYDWl

“Broken” is my first novel it is gritty and raw and hard-hitting. As it explores the subject of child abuse in form of a true story told anonymously. Here is a brief synopsis.


This is Susan’s true story told anonymously, of her journey from despair to healing. Susan begins to experience a feeling, that leads to childhood memories of sexual abuse in middle age. Memories she has no recollection of, that begin to haunt her in the present. She embarks on a journey of discovery, which challenges everything she thought about her life previously. There are times she thinks her dark night of the soul will destroy her and all her closest relationships. Once she has opened Pandora’s Box, it cannot be closed until she has come full circle. This book is a gripping, tense and sad narrative that you will not be able to put down, until you have finished it. A must read for those who dare to explore the grey and darker areas of life.

On a final note please visit Athena and find out more about “Bloggers for Peace 2013”          http://everydaygurus.com/

Link to Athena’s  synopsis of her forthcoming third novel “Prisoner of Love”

Visit Athena’s Counseling Corner  http://wp.me/P2zG6L-9j

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